Children from childhood into adolescence , when there will be many changes, mothers and daughters talk to some of some of the physiological and psychological changes , or make the opposite sex thing. Father, the child must have very clear principles of discipline , their kids will learn to know how to do an exercise self-discipline , know how to respect themselves and know how responsible the child . Not just pay attention to their parents, their children 's performance at home , in fact, hope that their lives and beliefs are consistent.
Life of faith with the most important is the performance of the parents at home , every Christian in every church may go to the party several times a week . Inside the church , you can pretend to look like a very devout Christian , but you go back home, in the eyes of a child is 24 hours in the verification of your behavior , so your words and deeds in which your child must With themselves , from the application of the faith with the hope of life is an example from the parents started their own , then they will follow you have such a yard outside the unity of life , the child in real life, in faith Implementation .
We Chinese parents love the Biaoda above, we have to Xuexichangchang hug a child ,会share with the kids the story of some young , or their own wrong thing because they will feel that the original father and mother would Wrong , they will take the initiative to share where they need help . By observing the children to see what their interest is , and then arrange a common time with him. For example , a comparison of the eldest daughter like to watch movies, special arrangements for parents only go to the movies with boss , to take this opportunity to share with her a lot , because only two people , we can talk more. She also felt her mother was also recognized my needs , she knows her mother is able to understand her and her younger brother have different needs , we are doing.
Daughter when he was in contact with skin , for example, hug her, hug her close to her . Sometimes love is not with words alone, the need for these operations , the need for such behavior. Her daughter , the parents would speak to her in the future more heart , not the same with the boys . Afraid that her daughter was cheated , being bullied , being hurt so many concerns.
In adolescence , her friend , her companion , is a major factor affecting her , so we pray to her side and have some friends with her spiritual growth . Often encourage her to have read through the life , prayer life. So she knew God's mind , we parents are not beside her , she taught in God's guidance as one of her parents is often pray for her .
Now the United States, college students, men and women having sex before marriage is common , many parents will think , would be worried if something has happened how do? So with our Christian faith taught her , know how to live a life pleasing to God , if the children understand the fear of God, and know they have to live a life pleasing to God , she can draw strength from God is better than a lot of Thing.
In American life , children are very free, in a small time, he should let them create a concept from their parents but can not leave God . You are in the charge of God , you are children of God. A child we should pray in the reading area , and they have a good communication , knowing from their parents not to leave everything and not leave the rules , not to leave your holy way of life , this is a very important concept . If they have a fear of God's heart , whether they are in the ends of the earth , they know how to live a life pleasing to God , we parents can rest assured complete .
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