2010年8月31日星期二

How Do I Control My Man's Mind!

No one will ever know what's going on inside other people's mind. If you are a girl wanting to control your man's mind, here are some simple tips for you:

Be transparent.
If you are honest to your man and you do not keep anything from him, then he will also not have any reason to be dishonest with you. All girls would want their man to be true to them, so in order to achieve this, you must initiate the act.

Stop nagging and complaining and you'll have him wrapped around your fingers.
A man often hesitates to share what's in his mind because he could be getting negative remarks rather than praises from you. Instead of giving him a scene of confrontation each time, make sure that he's showered with admiration.

Be more understanding.
Remember that you love the entire package not just a few aspects of him. So if he fails at some point in your relationship, be ready to accept him and be supportive still. Knowing that you will always be there makes him more at ease and soon he'll be more than ready to open up to you.

Make him feel secure.
Let him feel that no matter what happens that the love you have for him will never fade. Since he's ascertained of your feelings for him, then it will be easier for you to bend him to your way of thinking each time.

Learn to read between the lines.
Be sensitive to his feelings and even the non-verbal actions that he's trying to show to you. Be the type of woman who can read him or his actions and you're the woman who's able to control him.

Know him better.
You will be able to know what right things to do in every situation if you know your man. Having enough knowledge of what makes him tick, you will be better able to give him his wants and needs. And if he's well taken care of, it would be much easier to direct him to your will.

Make him love you.
If he is into you, then you will always be the one in his mind. If he loves you dearly all he will think of is you and how to please you. So make the extra effort to make him love you - be gorgeous, be kind, be you.

It will all be up to you on how to deal with your man's mind so that you either serve your motives or him. You can resort to other suggestions like hypnotism. But to make things simpler, love and honesty are all that you'll ever need to take control of your man's mind.

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2010年8月24日星期二

Growth time

Browse in the gift shop birthday card , one of a I can not help laughing , which was written : "You are only young once , but may never grow up ! " never have to grow up comfortable seems very happy , no one fanatical love Peter Pan Peter Pan 's people would agree .

However , naive and ignorant we all know life is not only inappropriate , it is not socially acceptable. For Christians, maturity is an essential element in our rebirth and become disciples of Christ , the more the baby to go beyond the stage of spiritual , scripture encourage us to learn more like Christ .

Corinth was a church there are many problems , in a letter addressed to Corinthians , Paul wrote the Corinthians Church is rooted in a lack of spiritual growth issues . Corinthians3Chapter1Day said: "Brethren, I used to talk to you , not to you as spiritual but to treat you in the flesh, as infants in Christ . "

How should we grow , we will not just remain in the spiritual child of? Peter encourages us: "You have to in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ grow in grace and knowledge "( 2 Peter3Chapter18Section). By meditating on the word of God and prayer , we can do ( Psalm119Posts97-104Section ; Acts of the Apostles1Chapter14Section ), as chaos in the Corinthian Church, perhaps now is the time we are in the growth !WEC

More like my benefactor , spiritual increasingly long;
More filled with love , in front of praise ;
More willing to deny himself, as subject and object Park prayer ;
More like my benefactor , forever and ever .Gabriel

2010年8月19日星期四

Spiritual transformation

"Do not love the world , and things in the world . If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him . " ( I John 2 15)


In the " Bible " , God revealed to his many multi-party loved the world how to save the world You gave his only begotten son Jesus Christ , perfecting the salvation ; God, all believers must know that he is in Christ Jesus , applied to the love we have is how wide and long advanced . At the same time , God manifested his intention more clearly , to all the grace , the beloved children all know to love him , specifically , the fiery love him.

However , many of the children of God to the Father 's love is often lukewarm , old cold , or a mouthful say love the Lord , but their hearts are far away from the Lord to do a great debt to benefactor . So we lost love of the Father of the heart, because love in the world and things in the world . What is " the world and things in the world "mean ? Scripture says : "All things in the world , just as lust of the flesh , the eyes of lust , and pride of life ... ... "( I John 2 16) " For " the original but "need" mean , like people hungry Need to eat the same . But if people had enough , they steal other people's food, that is from the bottom of the greedy desire .

Similarly, Christians today live in the ground, although the need to work and earn money to support themselves, but wherever the situation , should always keep the mind of Christ to meet , or we can easily deviate from the main heart , to pursue to meet their own Eyes , physical desire , and the so-called achievements of the earth , this life boast .

Brothers and sisters , though we do not belong to the world in the world , we are super- WTO and the world is Lord we call out from the world . Do not be far away from home prodigal father should be heart to the Lord , specificity , hot to love God our Father , he will favor us in the end .

2010年8月18日星期三

sticking with the well-being

From China to the United States , settled in the United States, Yuan YANG Ai-dong and foreign couples , they have two children and a woman . Today, they want to share with us how they believed the Lord , their marriage by faith what the Lord has been updated and changed .
The Bible says : " God has joined together man can not be separated . " Many people choose the object of marriage there are many different views. Some people think that "God has joined together "means their spouses back in some kind of arrangements , while others believe that God enables us to choose their own love object . In this regard, YANG Ai-dong that marriage is established by God , this concept means that the first marriage who is God , the couple combined , is a sacred relationship. God gave us free will , let us look at life among the people who love each other . In the search process is to pray, God leads to see whether God has prepared for us by our mind 's . We should seek God 's heart. In this process, we find consistency with our character 's spouse, if married , the two's relationship is very sacred and holy . Did not occur in extreme cases , it is not at liberty to break up a marriage . Yuan Yang also think that this section of the Bible are asking our marriage is respect. God give us wisdom . Bible also tells us: "Faith and do not believe can not be yoked together with " God guide us , when we look for when looking for a spouse with faith , so that we can better serve the Lord to pursue owners . God means that , when we become husband and wife , we must respect our marriage - we have established the relationship between God , not only in good times to respect , in the face of adversity should be respected, even when there is greater disagreement between the differences When the relationship established by God, not because of personal reasons we break it out .
Everyone has the autonomy to choose their own will, the object of love , but once decided, the two people into marriage , can not be free to the end of the marriage . Two people to operate together in prayer should be to create marriage, to make it more beautiful .
In YANG Ai-dong in a marriage, two people have no house, they lived in temporary housing allocation in the company , the kitchen is shared . They always went together when cooking , a cook , a keep them , the couple love each other , have been neighbors at home. YANG Ai-dong is a law student , Yuan Yang is a normal school graduate , two people are intellectual . They married three years left Beijing and went to Vancouver . In those three years , the marriage of two people has been very smooth , respectful love for one another . Later, after two people discussed and unanimously decided to study abroad , an increase of knowledge , so they emigrate to other countries together .
The initial migration is a very hard life , had two people 's wages are good, but go abroad to start from scratch . Abroad, they are the first with a dishwasher when not , because people find it too they do not have experience . Renovation work was to start from the YANG Ai-dong , to dishwashers, cooks, to the plastic products company , combined with the relationship between people is not friendly, so that part of life is very hard . Later in the church , they finally found the kind of friendship between people .
Older employees in the company of new employees will be bullied , plus the work of the past, they are more superior , and now all of a sudden dropped to the bottom of society , so Yang Lidong mind then great sense of loss , depression . Front of the window when he often sighed , Antan why they should give up the outstanding work abroad came to suffer , I do not know when this kind of life can proudly . This sentiment , I believe many friends leave the country once had . Therefore, foreign friends , the church should find as soon as possible , so that could solve many problems.

Strong dragon does not push local snakes

The last time we talked about "strong dragon does not push local snakes " , spoke of Isaac the "strong Dragon " facing " the local snakes " - Abimelech came with his army before him . That pressure does not push it he ? Of course, pressure , and if he does not pressure , they might soon his family problems , man the image of this time we would come out a long , tries to dominate the scene . Is the soldiers to the block , water flooded soil !

How we Christians do? People come to us trouble , we use what soldiers, what will be , what land , what mud then ? People come to Java , how should we be? Eye for an eye , an eye for an eye it? The Bible Jesus said , Matthew Chapter 5, 44 『 But I tell you : Love your enemies . Matthew Chapter 5 , section 39,40 』 『 someone strikes you on the right cheek, too , turn to him to fight ; to bring it inside your clothing, even the coat from him either . 』
Although people hit me in the right cheek , left cheek I have called him , but how to play there luxurious . He did not say someone hit you on the right cheek you are not to talk directly to your left cheek to him play , so after the speech you do not . Paul beaten , he said: "Why did you hit me ? "he say something! When people catch the Lord Jesus , he is not let people capture , he said, " I am with you in the synagogue every day, teaching, and you do not arrest me, why have they arrested the robber as today ? " the examples from the Bible to see that you can love Your enemy , you can force your people to go one mile, you walk two miles . But you should say or should say. Like Isaac, he made it very clear last time we said, as the triad of the gang when they came , Isaac was not shy in hiding, he was the truth, the truth and the others to be clear . Because they knew it. We often say , I want to say how he would say this . I did say that he会怎么想. Christians are not doing things like this , what is said is. And he said, not because I am better than you , but because you envy me , envy, to hate me , then sent me away , this is the facts of the past for some time . Isaac was a little afraid , no matter what you do , these words I Chao . You need to pay hearts, to understand things from the perspective of God 's will and not because you eat the loss , not because someone mistreats your anger on a stomach . If you have those things get in your eyes , you go to the point you could not speak , you say and no power , because the Spirit of the Lord is not with you.
After Isaac 's reply also added a question asking each other , "Why come to me ? "so people have to answer him on this issue . You tell me first , you come to do , then I will decide how to do . In that , I would tell you to clear , is not afraid , I do not hide , not fierce . At that time Abimelech said 『 We saw clearly that the Lord is with you ! 』 people not to trouble is to summation . The Old Testament that people want you to go one mile , you accompanied someone to go two miles . Isaac most clear in this case , this clearly is Isaac when his father Abraham dug wells alive , Isaac dug again the result that the shepherds of Gerar , Abimelech their servants Philistines On to compete , said "This is our well , or you dig a well with stone plug up , you just gave back . " Is not that the Lord Jesus say right cheek , left cheek , coat , jacket , one mile , two miles Things?
Many from China to overseas compatriots , never read the Bible , have not heard these words of Jesus say . So when you are at the party inside , you put this in the Lord Jesus, clothing, coat , one in two years of lessons and tell you when we heard laughter , feel ridiculous . If you play the fool asked them why they laugh ? They would say the world can there be such a thing ? This is what is the use? You called him the other side of your face, what? People ask you that what result? What you do then? Then we read Genesis , chapter 26 on the line, the second reason why you go , you play as Isaac reason with him , like , in fact, is to allow God to intervene so that God in his time , his approach To manifest with him and your in ! You let people bully does not matter, you repeatedly put up with , mine to avenge the Lord .
Just as an illustration , the Chinese people speak with ' repeatedly put up ' is not the same . Is to allow " let " word on the left of a " statement " , is the Word of God . The Word of God so that God 's love in my heart , I'm just very confident that delves back . Back forward , back forward , Abimelech came, they said, 『 We saw clearly that the Lord is with you . 』 If not let Isaac in front of the enemy can not see them . If he let his enemies can not see . However, once the enemy is not so visible , to make a lot of times .
Do you know what the Church today ? Christians question? Head of the family 's problems? Do not see the Lord is with you ! Others can not see , can not see your children , your wife can not see your neighbors , your enemies can not see . You did not witness , you think you a very good relationship with the Lord , but others can not see other people see you light is a very devout religious believers , it does not work . You want , but also digging wells ! To dig wells to water ! To farming , there is the harvest ! Although tired , but the Lord said when My worry is light , my brief is easy. 』
Easy brief , light burden provinces still tired . How to do that tired ? Lord be with ! No matter how tired the day Isaac , Abimelech he heard these words , to ensure not tired. I had them in this difficult , the result you to say , we saw clearly that the Lord is with you , very exciting ! Companion radio favorite with workers received letters from listeners , the original is very hard , but one received a letter from the audience feel are worth ! David and Mungo also need your encouragement ... ...
Today's theme is worthy of us to think about , so let him Isaac , he was such a retreat , in the end what value? Normal life with our relationship? Should we just allow , it is so back , nothing can do it? You may have many wrong stereotypes good, to go to think about what the content of this program .

2010年8月17日星期二

How can I change the " destiny "mean ?

Fate to change , crime problems to solve , how to solve the crime problem?
What is a " sin "mean ? Great to murder arson, looting rape, little to greedy lying , pride, envy ... ... chapters 17 James Bible : "If anyone knows do good and does not do , and this is his sin . " To His crime of sexual , Jesus said: " All who see women on the move lust , that the psychology has committed adultery with him . " This is not to say who is wrong? Since all have sinned , then the crime problem to solution? God gives us a way to solve the crime of " blood on behalf of the redemption , "because the Bible said: " Without blood , no forgiveness of . "
Shame! This " blood atonement " of the sacrificial way , he was generally popular religion to worship gods . Who started 15 or so around the turn when the Festival , each household must kill a pig , chicken, duck , to worship , no matter how poor the family is also a sin to kill chickens or ducks to ward off evil . But also in the bleeding wound must worship Shihai Alignment of you god idols , if poultry neck aligned put the gods, asking them to look at outlaw these sacrifices are bleeding , if the frame up and head aligned in swine and sheep on the gods Mouth Basset were orange , meaning " I am willing to help them die. " ( Gan words take Taiwanese pronunciation of the word orange kain )
So please look at these gods out bloody dead animal 's sake , spare forgive us our sins , so we are the crime of retribution Erzao to doom or disaster .
Why do people use the Bible, generally under the method of blood atonement , but also not forgive peace? The object because the demand is wrong, folks are asking for the idol gods no right to forgive sins , he can only persuade people to do more good things to make amends for the crime , if the plot merit can only do good things on the Western Paradise , then, Why lodging people killed so many animals to back people sin it ?
In fact, the blood atonement of faith in the folk mass has thousands of years . The ancient ritual of the day , does not mean the sky or private worship of the gods , nor worship the people of Taiwan by the Song Emperor bestowed Huizong of Zhang Yi God . The ancients referred to the "Heaven" is a person , is the first large Almighty .
Therefore, Confucius said, " Huo Zuiyu days , nothing to pray too ! "
So the first big Almighty who? His destiny as a people is the fate , the manager 's fortune, dominate , and this is the true God created all things - God .
In fact, human beings must be through the blood atonement of Christ the only way to be close to God, to get the peace of forgiveness . Blood atonement is the way with animals , is the past and the Old Testament God, who by established methods , so called " Old Testament . " Since the man came to the world body and shed blood of Jesus Christ , God gives it a new salvation forgiveness separate ways , known as the " New Testament . " As long as sincerely believe that mouth that you confess Jesus as your personal Savior , to complete the pardon of the effectiveness , " Destiny " will be completely changed.
You can do prayer (Prayer is talking with God ):
"Dear God, Thank you Jesus Christ, only begotten son (Jesus - Savior of the meaning ) ( Christ - the meaning of monarchy ) has given me and for my died on the cross for my resurrection . Saviour Jesus, ah ! I need you, now I open the gate to receive your as my Savior and seek your pardon , I committed many mistakes in life , many crimes, and to play my old curse brought about by fate . now Gave me new life and seeking a new destiny , so I became children of God. Holy Name of Jesus . Amen ( Amen means sincerely wish ) "