How to grow and develop along with adolescent children ( 1 )

Children from childhood into adolescence , when aspects of the physical aspects or Xinli have different changes Erju this time as a child Ye Kaishixiangyao adult , he tries hard to change, like his mother Huozhe Taren Shi Like adults . When the child self-reliance , independence, increasing self- awareness , when it 's way to teach parents may need to be adjusted . This time the biggest adjustment is learning to shift from a mother's role as a close friend of the child , let him think you were next to him a good friend. Parents should learn their language , or clothing, or interest in respect for the opposite sex is to learn . Parents with their own experiences to share their stories with them , then they can also share their part with you , so that a better understanding of their psychological and changes in the opposite sex and their thoughts and feelings .

Children grow up in , in their daily lives, although we are friends, but sometimes also in need of discipline , when , usually by the father to discipline . In this respect, sometimes after a certain punishment , and the kids said their parents had so little time to grow up too , also have been punished this way too . Parents are human beings , but also a painful stage after this , they will agree , they were punished in their growth process is in a part of . That is, they would throw socks off after the will , or even not to change and wash clothes on a fixed place on the plug under the bed under the quilt , then give them a proper punishment. This punishment is not to say a few large plates, or is that a few days off their computer , or television , or a specific cleaning them , or you need to wash a few weeks . When you ask them this time , or put some of their TV programs or the Internet , etc. , they are usually obedient , because from the beginning when they were young . You when a father from his little when you say not so, to a time when young people would not you say so , this requires an early age , when there is a basis .

For example: Dad said no , even if the sky is falling does not work, because God is the God of justice, he wants to teach , every father is the image of God and justice . We must firmly remember that , do not overlook that when the father of this role.
After each penalty , or to teach , especially to arrange a time to chat with them , or Bao Yibao them, so their relationship will not be destroyed because of this punishment . This is a child understand that discipline , but they also know their parents love them, hate them or think they are not very good, but a positive image of the discipline , they understand that we love him. For the children, both boys and girls have always embraced , and later in the discipline has been able to hug them and let the children feel their parents love deeply . Let the child know that parenting is reasonable , I should accept parental discipline . Between the child with parents to establish a parents both respects the feelings of love .

In the discipline , if we parents do not have a discipline , then the child itself is unsafe because he does not know in the end result is that he did right or wrong.