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People: Tony Parker's 'fling' never got beyond texting stage

2010-11-18T19:50:00.001-08:00

The fling that many suspect deep-sixed basketball Tony Parker's marriage to Eva Longoria never got beyond the texting phase, reports said Thursday.Australia Ugg Boots

Longoria moved to end her three-year marriage to Parker after discovering he had been exchanging a barrage of personal text messages with Erin Barry, wife of his former teammate Brent Barry. But according to People.com and other websites, Parker never had a physical relationship with her.

Although Parker allegedly sent text messages to Erin Barry, a source close to the NBA star told People.com that the relationship never turned physical.

"They knew each other, sent each other messages," a source told People. "It was flirtatious, but he never did anything with her."

According to Celebuzz, Parker and Barry continued to exchange texts that involved the two leaning on each other for support as their respective marriages were crumbling.

The Parkers were reportedly good friends with the Barrys, and often socialized with them. They spent New Year's Eve together a couple of years ago at Longoria's Los Angeles restaurant, Beso, People reported.

Brent Barry filed for divorce Oct. 29, according to Access Hollywood, although his father, Golden State Warriors legend Rick Barry, told TMZ Erin initiated the split.

"I know (Erin) was moving out of the house soon and she was the one that filed for divorce," Rick ugg australia sale

Longoria, 35, filed for divorce Wednesday in Los Angeles Superior Court. The move reportedly caught Parker off guard.

"They were working out the details about who was going to file and when," a source told People magazine. "They didn't want it to become a messy divorce. Then Eva got a little revenge and didn't tell Tony she was filing and dropped the papers on him, catching him off balance for the media blitz."

STEP ASIDE AND LET A REAL PHILANDERER THROUGH: As if to remind Tony Parker how far he has to go in the marriage-wrecking department, Tiger Woods came in out of the rain this week with a Newsweek piece reflecting on how it was just a year go that his cavalcade of extramarital affairs came to light after he crashed his SUV.

"The physical pain from that car accident has long healed," he wrote. "But the pain in my soul is more complex and unsettling; it has been far more difficult to ease -- and to understand. But this much is obvious now: My life was out of balance, and my priorities were out of order. "... I hurt the people whom I loved the most. And even beyond accepting the consequences and responsibility, there is the ongoing struggle to learn from my failings."

Woods added that after much soul-searching, he has learned painful lessons.

"Golf is a self-centered game, in ways good and bad. So much depends on one's own abilities. But for me, that self-reliance made me think I could tackle the world by myself. It made me think that if I was successful in golf, then I was invincible. Now I know that, no matter how tough or strong we are, we all need to rely on others."

'IDOL' PLANS CHANGES, ANGRY MOBS ARE READY: "American Idol" executive producer Nigel Lythgoe says that in addition to new judges Jennifer Lopez and Steven Tyler, other changes are coming to the show, which opens its 10th season Jan. 12.Australia sheep boots

For one thing, he's abandoning the Top 24 concept. "I didn't think (the top 24) were very good. I was bored with them by the time they got there," Lythgoe told TVGuide.com. So, the series will focus its advancement rounds starting with the best 12 singers. Also, theme weeks will focus on decades, rather than individual artists, Lythgoe said.

DOWNSIZING: In a move that might strike some as entirely unpatriotic, VH1 is retouching its promotional ads for the Dec. 5 "Divas Salute the Troops" special, to, um, add nuance to Katy Perry's breasts. The original photo shows the singer posed like a pinup girl and parachuting while wearing a form-fitted camouflage jumpsuit. But apparently Perry's own reps were unhappy with the image(s) and demanded the ads be redone to make her "vocal cords" less prominent.

TODAY IN HISTORY
Today is Friday, Nov. 19, the 323rd day of 2010. There are 42 days left in the year.
1831: The 20th president of the United States, James Garfield, was born in Orange Township, Ohio.
1863: President Abraham Lincoln delivered the Gettysburg Address as he dedicated a national cemetery at the site of the Civil War battlefield in Pennsylvania.
n 1919: The Senate rejected the Treaty of Versailles by a vote of 55 in favor, 39 against, short of the two-thirds majority needed for ratification.
1959: Ford Motor Co. announced it was halting production of the Edsel.
1977: Egyptian President Anwar Sadat became the first Arab leader to visit Israel.
1985: President Ronald Reagan and Soviet leader Mikhail Gorbachev met for the first time as they began their summit in Geneva.
1990: The pop duo Milli Vanilli were stripped of their Grammy Award because other singers had lent their voices to the "Girl You Know It's True" album.
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Actor Alan Young (91), talk show host Larry King (77), talk show host Dick Cavett (74), broadcasting and sports mogul Ted Turner (72), TV journalist Garrick Utley (71), fashion designer Calvin Klein (68), sportscaster Ahmad Rashad (61), actress Kathleen Quinlan (56), newscaster Ann Curry (54), former NASA astronaut Eileen Collins (54), actress Allison Janney (51), actress Meg Ryan (49), actress-director Jodie Foster (48), actor Jason Scott Lee (44), Olympic gold medal runner Gail Devers (44), dancer-choreographer Savion Glover (37), Olympic gold medal gymnast Kerri Strug (33).ugg outlet store

Is South Africa stuck with a one-party state?

2010-11-16T00:09:00.003-08:00

Last Thursday, November 4, a brief report in NewsTime included a link to Professor Pierre De Vos’s website and suggested it was well worth reading his article on the ANC-Cosatu row: ‘Regime Change’? - No, it’s called democracy. It is indeed a fine article and, if you have not read it yet and would like to, click here to read it.nike air max on sale

I left a brief comment saying that an important reason the ANC is a threat to democracy is that the party’s viewpoint dominates - you might even say, dictates - our political conversations and thinking - meaning we take as our starting point that SA is a ‘democracy’, but that something has gone wrong with it. No wonder, then, we generally end in confusion - and Professor De Vos will forgive me, I hope, for having included a link to a recent article of mine where I argue this through (‘Why all South Africans - including ANC voters - need another government’).

This produced an excellent reply, from Mr Michael Osborne, that questioned my view and set out, as clearly as you could wish, the role played by the DA in South African politics. Regardless of personal opinions and loyalties, such exchanges seem much more the kind of ‘national debate’ SA should be having sixteen years into the new dispensation. Instead, the mainstream media’s perennial reluctance, or inability, to venture upon the crucial issue - the lack of alternative to the ANC - once again dogged coverage of the milestone Cosatu-Civil Society Conference and has helped important oppositional messages it might have carried to be lost.

Mr Osborne’s contribution to the discussion follows in full. For reasons of space, my reply to him will be published in this column next week.cheap gifts on sale

Neither the term 'one party state', nor 'monocracy', is quite the right term to describe contemporary SA. Note that Giliomee (1999), terms it a 'one- party dominant democracy'. (Admittedly, not a very elegant usage.)

I offer the following points:

1. SA is not a 'monocracy' in the sense of, for example, the DRC, or Museveni’s Uganda. That much is obvious; opposition parties are formally legal. But it is also not a monocracy in the sense that opposition parties exist only in formal, nominal terms. The DA is a relatively large, well organised and adequately funded entity. It controls one very important province and several cities or towns. And it has a non-trivial chance of taking power in one or two other provinces, and in many local governments.

2. DA punches above its weight, because it enjoys significant support in powerful parts of civil society. In fact, it is the DA that is dominant amongst the demographic groups that control large sectors of the economy.cheap toys on sale

3. Another reason DA is able to exercise more power than their numbers suggest is that ANC power in central govt is balanced by the strong and independent elements of civil society – the media, the professions, churches, labour, etc. Even to the extent that these actors do not support the DA as such, their countervailing weight opens up political space for the DA that would not otherwise exist. (The fact that the judiciary remains largely independent also countervails ANC power.)

4. On a more philosophical level, let me pose this question: Relative to what country is SA a 'monocracy'? Consider the U.S., as emblematic of the stable equilibrium that characterises most mature democracies. It is of course true that there is routine circulation of power between the two major parties – as recent events illustrate. But consider how relatively narrow is the difference between the Republicans and the Democrats, on most non-symbolic issues. (I refer to the establishment centre of each party, not the wacky left wing of the Democrats or the nutty right of the Republicans.) Consider also that third parties are completely marginalised in U.S. politics. buy cheap gifts

5. If you accept what I contend in the preceding paragraph, one might fairly say that the ideological diversity within the ranks of the ANC is greater than the aggregate variation within the two dominant parties in the U.S. taken together. Could we not conclude that the practical chance of significant changes in government policy is more likely in SA, by virtue of the jockeying for power within the ANC, than it is in the US?buy cheap toys

‘Racist’ posters a hoax: Sasco

2010-11-16T00:09:00.001-08:00

The contentious student council elections posters at the Cape Peninsula University of Technology were not written or put up by the SA Students Congress (Sasco), the organisation said on Thursday. nike air max 95 on sale

“The poster is a hoax and does not represent the views of our organisation at all. None of our structures made that poster,” Sasco president Mbulelo Mandlana said in a statement.

“We are perturbed and disappointed that the AfriForum youth has the temerity to believe that a racist poster purporting to express the views of Sasco is real and part of our policy.”

Civil rights group AfriForum's youth body on Wednesday laid a charge of hate speech with Human Rights Commission against Sasco for the posters. They feature the words “One boer one bullet” and “Blacks only organisation (strictly South Africans)”. nike air max shoes for sale

“The poster is racist, xenophobic and inciting,” AfriForum Youth chairperson Ernst Roets said in a statement.

“Since the matter could not be resolved by talks, AfriForum Youth is left with no other option but to take it to the next level... to lodge a charge with the SA Human Rights Commission in Johannesburg.”

Mandlana said the poster was made by people who wanted to “de-campaign” Sasco. cheap nike air max shoes

“These things occur consistently in white campuses and usually produced by white racist students who want to portray Sasco as racist in order to mobilise anti-Sasco sentiment among students.”

Mandlana said such posters were put up “so often that we do not have the time to refute every hoax that is produced by racists in our name.

“We do not have proof that the so-called poster has actually not been produced by AfriForum members in order to later cry foul against our organisation and present us as racists and xenophobes.” cheap nike shoes

AfriForum said it had sent a letter to Mandlana after receiving complaints about the posters, to ask whether they reflected Sasco policy and, if not, to distance itself from the wording and take action against students involved.

Roets claimed Mandlana, in response, railed against AfriForum Youth during a media conference. Mandlana denied AfriForum had contacted him.

“If AfriForum youth intended for us to collectively deal with the issue of the hoax poster, they would have engaged with us directly.”

He challenged AfriForum to go ahead with its complaint.

“If AfriForum wants to take us to the Human Rights Commission for a hoax-poster, let them do so, they have time,” Mandlana said.cheap nike air max 90

Big Brother loser gets cheque from Mugabe

2010-11-01T02:46:00.001-07:00

Munyaradzi Chidzonga just lost out to Nigeria's Uti Nwachukwu, who won the official 200,000-dollar prize from the show that locks contestants from around the continent in a house. uggs on sale

But on Wednesday, the 24-year-old received a 300,000-dollar cheque from President Robert Mugabe, state media said.

The money was collected through a campaign spearheaded by Harare businessman Phillip Chiyangwa, a relative and close ally of the veteran ruler, who reportedly thought the voting on the show was unfair.

It's not clear if 86-year-old Mugabe himself actually watched the show.

"I didn't think you would survive because you looked so young, perhaps the youngest of them all," Mugabe told Munyaradzi as he handed over the cheque.

"It was Nigeria versus Zimbabwe and Nigeria is a very big country, so you deferred to Nigeria. But both of you won and from our point of view, for us, you were the winner."

However, some people said the awarding of the money was a case of misplaced priorities in a country that struggles to pay teachers their meagre salaries of around 150 dollars a month. sale ugg boots

"Once again, we are the masters of misplaced priorities," one Shamba Shambamuto wrote in a letter to the privately owned News Day.

"If we can give this contestant a whopping 300,000 dollars, then surely we can do for our suffering masses who live in perpetual hunger, sickness and economic marginalisation."

US astronaut to share knowledge in SA
Nasa astronaut Jeff Hoffman will hold public lectures around South Africa next month, the science department said on Monday.

Besides increasing science awareness, the visit was also in support of Africa hosting the Square Kilometre Array (SKA) radio telescope bid, spokesperson Tommy Makhode said.

“If Africa wins the bid to host the SKA this would mean an investment of about US15 billion in Africa over 50 years. cheap ugg boots

“The majority of the investment would go to South Africa. As part of the bid, South Africa is building the Karoo Array Telescope (MeerKAT), which will be a world class telescope in its own right.”

Hoffman became an astronaut with the United States Aeronautics and Space Administration in 1979.

He went on shuttle space flight missions to repair the Hubble Space Telescope (HST) - one of the most successful telescopes ever built.

He is also one of the four space-walking astronauts for the first HST servicing mission in 1993, and last flew on the Shuttle Columbia. australia ugg boots

In his five space flights, Hoffman has logged more than 1211

hours in space and travelled more than 34.6-million kilometres.

He will be accompanied by Dr Robert Williams, President of the International Astronomical Union, and Professor Charles McGruder of Western Kentucky University.

Lectures will be given in Johannesburg, Kimberley, Bloemfontein, Durban and Cape Town, from November 8 to 15. ugg australia sale

Dream by

2010-10-15T02:10:00.001-07:00

1989 At the end, Christmas bell has not sounded, the snow cover has long been a paradise for Pennsylvania town of the eastern United States.

  messenger in the quiet farm, the postman brought a letter. "Messenger" editor opened it, is a manuscript, entitled "the story of a prodigal son", he was moved by the story, therefore, decided to make it available on the December of the "Messenger" Miscellaneous  on.

  read about it in this article that all atheists surprise - it involves a miracle.

  It is not a modern "Arabian Nights", but a true story. I read a story is five or six years later.

  1995 年 8 months of the day, I met in Los Angeles, the author of this article, and he accepted my interview.

  He is a dream of success were, however, "success" of the wheels had him crushed by the dream of finding a ┅ ┅

  "He put his weapons his gods, when his weapons win he is defeated himself." (Tagore)

  So, I decided to write the history of his dream.

Tidings of great joy

2010-10-14T01:14:00.003-07:00

Friends:
Very pleased to have the opportunity to share with you a joyful message, this information is about a person - Jesus. The name we really too familiar. From small to large, each Christmas, we will hear the story of his birth. But you know the name meaning?
The name Jesus means "the people themselves saved from sin." (Matthew chapter 21), this is really a joyful message. But in the end he is the kind of person do?
By occupation, said he was a carpenter, but hath much more than the line, a carpenter, he had reached by ulceration in leprosy patients at the healed man. Some people have caught him in front of an adulteress, and said to kill her, but Jesus has forgiven her, excited the crowd, said: "Who is without sin among you, and can cast the first stone at her." He also has been called the blind see, the resurrection of the dead, and walked on the water.
He never wrote a book, but there are thousands of books of his life; he has never had a spectrum of music, but there are many poems to sing for Him. Until now, there are countless people, he kept the same treatment, pardon, I was one of them.
Jesus is not just a matter of fact, he even have a special status. The Bible says: "For God so loved the world that gave His only begotten Son, whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have eternal life." (John Chapter 16)
Jesus is the Son of God, He was with God in the later his people to be saved from sin, it turned into flesh, was born in a manger.
Jesus was both God and nature can do everything I said before, but more importantly, he's willing to choose the style, came to us in our relationship with God, played a very important role, because through Jesus, we can resume with God and good, are no longer isolated.
So, sincerely invite you to know Jesus and accept Him as your salvation ready to enjoy with God and good joy and peace.
May God's grace be with you at all, bless you.
Sincerely, your friend
If you prefer, you can pray like this: "Dear Jesus, I admit that in life made a lot of mistakes, many sins, I am willing to accept you as my Savior, in charge of my life, the name of Jesus, Amen." (Amen means sincere wish)

Victory and Defeat

2010-10-14T01:14:00.001-07:00

Verse: enemies rise up against you, the Lord will bring them in front of you is you smote; them from one way to attack you, will escape from the seven road. ... ... The Lord shall make thee fall before the enemy, you go out one way against them, the road will run from July. You will be thrown in to all the nations of thee. (Deuteronomy Nianba section of Chapter 7,25)

When the Israelites prepared to enter the Promised Land, God gave them a choice: pay attention to pay attention to His voice, follow His commands, and through successive victory; or away from God, do not follow His word, and again experienced a serious failure. This is an easy choice. The outcome of their outcome on the battlefield, to articulate what their options. Guarantee of victory does not mean that the Israelis do not need to beam on the armor, on the battlefield, it does not mean they can not pay any price to get the victory. Sometimes, they violently attack the enemy, the war over and over again and again raging. However, when the Israelis close walk with the Lord, they know their efforts will be the final victory. God gives us choices, and the same time the Israelis. If you walk with Him and follow His commands, He will be with us on the same side, can guarantee that we will overcome the challenges. We've got the face of war, as long as the line has been His will, God promised we will have victory. However, if we choose to act with God irrelevant, of course, would be difficult to crush. As the children of Israel, things will be clear that the outcome of our choices are. If each of the challenges you have experienced failure, your heart may have been away from God. To listen to God, to walk in Him to show you will. Regardless of experience is going to win you will get.

path of the righteous as the dawn light, shining ever brighter until the perfect day. (Proverbs chapters 18)

2010-10-14T01:13:00.000-07:00

Climbing plants you must have seen in the building of the wall covered with the most covered in green leaves and flowers. The higher it is, the more widely distributed; the bottom of a small but smooth and full of wrinkles of the stem. If the top is not to show the active life, you may think that it has already withered.
You will not believe God created man, only on the half-life is good, because He is the founder of God into the final. Hath the start, and he shall also finish. If you're not out of Hong confidence (of unwavering faith in God), to ensure that you will be able to see the glory of God.

Of our time lies in his hands,
He said: "I have overall plan!"
Do not be afraid, only revealed half of the young;
Where the trust of God, shall see the overall situation.

You have to do is to not fear old age, they do not deliberately conceal; just face the reality and calm acceptance and full play, not put up with old age, there is no need to adapt it negative. You have to take the final stage of life, to live a better life.

Argumentation and the subjective experience of objective

2010-10-08T00:28:00.000-07:00

Ephesians 11-13
So you should remember: you Gentiles in the flesh before, is known not circumcised; it by staff who were originally known as the circumcision of the flesh who played. Then you Christ, outside of Israel, in the promise is all about outsiders, and no hope in this world, there is no God.Once you were far away from God, But now in Christ Jesus by His blood, have been brought near.

Paul reminded the believers exhorted the day, the identity, they used to be excluded as an "alien" and "Outsider", and in fact have to live without hope. But everything has changed. Because in Christ Jesus, they can now with God. ...

This is indeed a good news, which is the "Gospel." But if we never really experience the "good news" of the content, the "good news", may still be just a we hear, know, consent, just like the good news. ...

For example, the government announced, suggesting that members of the public said: the general public in the past is not close to top leaders of the house, but now all people with ID, can be met with top leaders. ... Received the announcement, suggesting that the public will be very happy. But the real experience to this "message" is how good it is those who have really met the top leaders. ...

Paul said: "Once you were far away from God, But now in Christ Jesus by His blood, have been brought near." ... This is a theological statement, Chen about believers in Christ Jesus with God intimate relationship. For all believers, the phrase has become the doctrine of objectivity, truth. In other words, we can all be a seamless with God. ... This is good news.

"God, you who once were far away But now in Christ Jesus by His blood, have been brought near." Paul is familiar with theology, fundamentalists; we know, consent, whom also have happy, excited But is difficult to realized that one of the reason for this? ...

Paul believers (including you and me) remark, that he personally sort of understanding. He felt like it, to remind everyone, has been willing to forget their anxiety by this good news. ... However, we really like Paul as a seamless experience with God spiritual facts? ...

As the days past, life stress, challenges continue, the heavy burden of reality, faith and life will lose vitality. Theological argumentation we may gradually will feel stiff, cold, and even tired of it. ...

How to maintain the life of faith fresh, lively and it? ... What can you do, or do not do anything that will help it look similar experience with God? ... ...

Maybe we can more simply, admitted that he has no way to get close to the experience of God, but only learn one thing: "I believe God close to me." ... So, we worry, fuss, stress, fear, loneliness, anger, or wake up in the morning, work their way to school, their work, on the way home, when to sleep, recite all your faith in God: "God, I believe you this

Lose yourself, remember to retrieve

2010-10-07T01:34:00.000-07:00

Sometimes, the inexplicable bad mood, do not want to speak to anyone, just a person quietly in a daze.

Sometimes, I suddenly felt felt uneasy, and see what all feel uncomfortable, boring mind tears, trying desperately to find an exit.

Sometimes the people around them do not understand their own, facing the people around, I suddenly felt speechless.

Sometimes, she felt out of tune with the world, has always insisted on something beyond recognition overnight.

Sometimes, suddenly wanted to escape from the present life, want desperately to pack their luggage easy to stray.

Sometimes, someone suddenly said to you, I think you have changed, and then he started with mixed feelings.

Sometimes, I hope the time for themselves to stop, finish has not had time to do.

Sometimes people want to hide a fragile, do not want others to see their own wounds.

Sometimes, suddenly felt like crying, but sad cry.

Sometimes, late at night, I suddenly felt not sleep, but stubbornly sleepy.

Sometimes, through a familiar corner, and saw the familiar silhouette, suddenly thought of a person's face.

Sometimes, obviously much to say to himself, do not know how to express.

Sometimes, I feel they own the whole world, the moment but feel that they in fact nothing.

Really just sometimes, obviously a lot of friends around them, but still feel lonely.

Sometimes, like to indulge themselves, want to send a crazy hysterical frankly.

Sometimes, suddenly find themselves lost without a trace of their own.

Sometimes, my heart pop up a tired mood, feel very tired.

Sometimes, do not see their future looks like, confused what to do.

Sometimes, found himself grew up overnight.

Sometimes, I heard a song, you will suddenly think of a person.

Sometimes, hoping to find someone good love yourself, yearn for a sense of security. But when people who can hurt you there, you are paranoid to retire.

Sometimes, people misunderstood his Youkouwuxin word, depressed heart tears.

Sometimes, hurt by others, talking about nothing, in fact, sad heart to death.

Sometimes, often struggling in the memory, there are many in the past can not be relieved.

Sometimes, it is easy to move others care, but was sometimes numb like a fool.

Sometimes, watching a little time goes by, left to sigh, then he could do nothing.

In fact, sometimes, really will be so many pieces. . .

Silent installation with friends, with strangers speak from the heart. To care about you, do not want Ta fear, sometimes, no news is a good news. In fact, I want to say "I'm fine", perhaps ignorant of the heart lies, but also just want the most brilliant side on their impression of each person's home page. . .

Lost his own, remember to retrieve ... ...

a modern mother Portrait of

2010-09-28T01:05:00.000-07:00

Huang Lihong couple are Christians , the children small is in the church grew up , so a lot of the basic principle is based on Bible principles. In life , apart from keeper Bible God, to the principles of , we attach great importance to cultivate their sense of responsibility. I think whether you at any age, any environment, any of the posts above, if you have a good sense of responsibility , you will do well . Responsibility for their future growth or to the above work is very important. So from they at four years old the time start school with finishing their room , for example, the clothes clean folded , they own put their closet , and their homework is their responsibility, I do not need every day Ask them to do their homework , they know to do, of their own pipe the things me to make their own to manage . Small training them on they should charge of what be able to seriously take do it to complete .

In teaching their children the process of , sometimes children may their parents the teachings of have some dissatisfaction with , some children's ideas are with us not the same . As they grow up, especially the eldest son , for me is really a challenge to the a teenager when child is very difficult upbringing , and while I find some in this age young people books view And also asked a lot of in this respect experience the parents , and with children living different performance. For example, I heard some cases , positive or negative, I will with my son share , should talk to them about this matter , ask them this matter the idea of is how they will share.
Many parents have been complaining that children spend too much time TV with the computer above the . of my kids to Few watch TV until today after school come back will not to open the TV , they do not have this habit, and rarely play games, because in addition to homework other , there is no extra time. I will arrange outdoor activities such as sports, participate in different extracurricular activities , weekend time to participate in Boy Scouts to go walking, cycling , camping, to now form a habit , has been on the game uninteresting .

Occasionally he would go to students home for a birthday party, which my mother on our family told me in general boys playing games is obsessed with , my son half an hour, he would up and call other children play with To not continue the game inside. As has been told them , you have to know how to control yourself, do not let anything , anything to control you. For example, addicted to a as game, I told him to play with the time to yourself learn to control , you yourself know I have to stop when I can stop. There are times when children for a play together few hours can not stop, even the whole night will not sleep , and if so, you become subject to the computer or by this game to control you , you are a wise person, you Should not allow These things to control you, should you go to control it.

the child If you make a mistake when , if it is in life not much of a problem , we will talk to him , you 're doing something wrong. If he did not think he is wrong , he can give me a good explanation, I hope he in a respectful manner told me , because some things, his views than I do , so I will not say A mistake , I ferocious went to call him . I gave him an opportunity to explain in by this interpretation , and slowly let him know that is wrong.

Sometimes, he challenged that , why I'm wrong , not you wrong? I would tell him that we go back to the Bible to see , you do not comply with the Bible God the teachings of . God is perfect, and parents are not perfect , I may have wrong time, but we together learn . So far , we seem no big conflicts. I think the kids young in the church growing up , the Bible the teachings of in their future life which is very important , will they bring far-reaching spiritual impact .

Sometimes feel that we Chinese people parents , children often are criticized , scolded , discipline multi- , encouragement, appreciation, certainly less . In particular, we of this generation , young parents are seldom praise you, and you do well we should. North American child life is not the same , parents rarely criticized , with critics of the way , are generally encouraged. He did well when we to encourage him told him , you should be able to do well , this time doing a good job , we next time work , if you have difficulties, we are together. He did good, we gave him appreciate his positive , give him some appreciation. In fact, some time, encouragement and appreciation for but will give the child more self-confidence, greater motivation to learn. Reminds me of the biblical phrase " education children, so he walked in the way , is old he will not depart from it . "This is almost we the couple before going to sleep pray as part of our every night for my two A son pray.

of marriage Disappointed because

2010-09-26T00:55:00.000-07:00

In marriage (especially the wedding day is not long ), the rarely seen growing in step, psychological needs are the same couple. the couple Step with , one more in need of psychological space , the other the more need for intimacy the phenomenon of , will bring the two sides the pain . However, most of the marriage, go through a similar kind of " production of pain. " marital relationship Into the individual on the , the two sides may have a felt cheated . the feeling The more intense , the couple 's conflicts are more intense. caused by the couple This feeling reasons for several .

1. Marginal utility of the problem. When I was young , of Taiwan supplies poor , the first taste of ice cream , taste best . After coming to America at any time ice cream to eat , no as the first less memorable feeling . love The same is true in symbiotic period the early , everything is so fresh and beautiful, as long as with each other together, hearts full of joy. because of each other is always smiling Compliment you, praise you, increase your self worth. Time goes by, gradually lost freshness , the other side appreciate you and make you excited , joy the ability of increasingly reduced . Alone and each other with , can no longer make you satisfied.

2. before marriage In order to get each other's love , both sides regard the their best side performance of out , how many hiding the other do not like side. with They fall in love , a great his ideal dreamer image of projected onto each other body , and then fell in love with his own project that image.

Each of the lovers most experienced this love early each other landscaping stage of . They were willing to go the carpet the other side of , the promise of life, stay together , through thick and thin promises, often because they subconsciously are wishful thinking to think that , " he will always and marriage , like love me, appreciate me, pay attention to me , Accept me. as long as with him , even if does not do anything , he would take the initiative to bring me happiness . " marriage , when this sweet better feeling gradually fade away, also found that spouses than originally expected less the ideal when , feel cheated wells . I thought: "I still as before did not change Yeah, why he has changed ? the past, he obviously have the ability to bring me happiness, why is with him no longer there sweet happiness ? he can do it , and Unwilling to meet my heart the needs of , he was not on purpose ? "So , like not being met children as , in order to achieve their goals , both sides may be used playfully, to please the way , and then high pressure , blaming, angry , to provoke Other guilt means of force the other into submission . Unfortunately, this is the high-pressure manipulation way of (coerciveprocess), is difficult to bring the each other desire to meet , but let the couple into hurting each other a vicious cycle of . As mentioned earlier, and the couple to each other took the wrong electric blanket switch in general, one the more need to reduce the psychological distance , the other more in need of psychological space. pursue intimacy Party to with a crying, angry punishment pressure will only make the other spared further.

If the Mid-Autumn Moon Festival

2010-09-25T02:14:00.000-07:00

Years had passed , spring and autumn several times , but also almonds , autumn 's Mid-Autumn Festival . On this section of the moon 's origin , spread a lot of story: If the Moon , Wu Gang felling Gui , rabbit pound medicine and moon cake uprising so . People eat moon cake in the Mid-Autumn Festival , is said to commemorate the success of national uprising . At that time, the Yuan Dynasty , many patriotic righteous , unhappy alien Mongols against Han 's brutal rule , so plan before Mid-Autumn Festival , will be written , " August 15 Night Uprising " note hidden within the cake circle , distributed to over Han Others , to inform everybody in the autumn night the full moon in August , each family has uprising , kill Mongols . Yuan established the successful overthrow of the last Han Chinese Ming Dynasty , then in the annual Mid-Autumn Festival to eat moon cake as a souvenir.

Today, the annual Mid-Autumn Festival when the reunion , the family household is still eating bread full moon lights up to point things in life . In addition , many couples take Yash Liang-chen , and marriage , the so-called Elixir of Love , one more round .

At this Mid-Autumn Festival , full of poetic , when the moon cake fragrance , "Autumn "always gives a special feeling , especially in the Mid-Autumn of the moon , bright and clear in the How soft , Xi and gorgeous under the moonlight , so that Vicissitudes of life people are lamenting ! Facing the moon , unlimited recollections , and to express their emotions through words , so since ancient times , there are many poems famous poet scholars to write down , spread so far , people appreciate the praise , such as:

The spirit of cool people every wedding , mid-autumn moon is exceptionally bright . ( Ming . Awaken the common saying )

Life wedding event , when the spirit is always very cheerful cheer , just like the moon to the moon when it is particularly beautiful as the Ching Ming .

Fashion goes in cycles east , my country next month in the bitterly painful . ( Later Tang Dynasty . Li Yu )

Fashion goes in cycles winds blew east , mountains and rivers do not want to go back Yuan Wang 's native country , they are nothing but shine in the Mid-Autumn Festival moon . Remember the Cheng pulls , which worthy of looking back sad memories ? Endless grief !

This life is not long for this night is good, where next year to see the moon ? ( Song . Su Shi , Mid-Autumn Festival )

In my life , all of the Mid-Autumn Festival night, not always possible to see such a beautiful moon , but I do not know next year's tonight , where would appreciate the moon ?

Mid-Autumn Moon on the perception of the ancients , so praise and praise ! Thanks for the Memories and sad thought so ! They joy of life joys and sorrows , was shown on the moon , from the full moon reveals the exhaustive enjoy . "Life is hard on a few back to take the lead , " the moon of our Mid-Autumn Festival , think?

Poet David in full moon night , watching the moon alone the wonderful Li Jie , know that this is to create heaven and earth God created all things wonderful , but can not help but lament the praise of the heart :

Lord our Lord , ah, your name in all the How beautiful!
You have set your glory above the heavens . ...
I watch your fingers heavens, and your moon and the stars ,
They said: What is man that thou art mindful of him ?
What kind of world do you care for him ?
You made him a little lower than the angels , and hast crowned him with glory and honor .
You sent him management of your hands , so that everything is all the cattle and sheep ,
Beasts of the field , birds of the air , fish of the sea
The line where sea , and all under his feet.
Lord our Lord , ah, your name in all the How beautiful!
( Psalm chapter VIII )

Song Su ( Su ) in its book " Red Cliff " said: he and a guest in the Yangtze River rafting moon , the moon of the autumn night to see the beauty of natural scenery , it was the impermanence of life and short-term , " Grieve the sky as boundless admiration of the Yangtze River ", the so-called Red Cliff war hero generation of Cao Cao , " I of the male is also solid , but now security in the zai ? " can not " embrace Feixianguan to travel , hold the moon while the long end . "
Su of recollections , as Moses thought life is short , " but labor and sorrow , they quickly pass, and we fly away . " ( Psalm 90 10) has neglected this point , however, Su Wu , he said:
Customers understand that while the husband of water and almost month , lost time is never , and Wei Chang to have , empty or full, by Rubi , Er Cu Mo dynamics also ... but the river , the cool breeze and the mountains of the moon ... taken from no ban , inexhaustible, Tibet is also the creator of endless ...
Su life in the remote , although I do not know the purpose of life going, but recognize that from the nature of the existence of God the Creator : " However, the river breeze and the mountains of the moon ... taken from no ban , inexhaustible, is Tibet is also the creator of endless ... "This , as David praised " What is man that thou art mindful of him , you sent him manage all of your hands ... . " Apostle Paul in the Bible is the witness :

Since the creation of the world since God eternal power and divine nature are clearly seen , although the eye can not see , but with creatures, can know that men are without excuse . ( Bible, Romans chapter 20 )

But the world many people still do not believe God exists. They believe that while everything in the universe is a natural , non- God created . However, even a small table , are not natural and there is some manufacturing out of it ; that we human beings , but also the image of God according to His own created ( the Bible, Genesis Chapter 27 ) . Unfortunately, one result of crime, the right path, to worship the false idol of God , or believe in atheistic heresy , and even caught perish . However, " God so loved the world that His Son Jesus 〕〔 gave them whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have eternal life " (John chapter 16) .

Dear friends ! We would like to enjoy the moon in the Mid-Autumn Festival , the yearning to create the wonderful love of God , go back to repentance to Him , He gives us enjoy the bliss of eternal life ; and let us pray to God , like His love, in this Mid-Autumn Moon Festival in highlight , to save people who are suffering from disaster , people have a God of comfort and hope . ( Cheung Kong and China )

Christians should have 10 kinds of wealth consciousness

2010-09-24T00:43:00.000-07:00

The world , materialistic ; the world , consumed by greed, all the money , no permanent friends , only permanent interests , what relations are unreliable , in addition to money, relationships , and the like so often in such times people often talked about as a Christian Should have the kind of wealth sense?

1 , Life is more important than wealth

Jesus said that a very classic , man if he gains the whole world and lose his own life , what is gained? Man give in exchange life? Thus , life is most precious ! Feed on dead birds , human financial death is a bit desolate , if not wisdom, ignore such words of Jesus learned and alert , then he will have a life doomed to lose money in the transaction : the former half , Yongming exchange for money ; later life , Money -for- life ; the end, both life and wealth through the ages , this kind of tragedy intensified , making the same mistakes are not uncommon . Remember the words of the Lord Jesus , life does not consist in wealth .

2 , the limited function of wealth

Limited set of wealthAwarenessAbandon the universal wealth and wealth of useless

Binary opposition of material and spiritual theology lead to degrade the material wealth, that the poorer the more spiritual , the concept that ignores cultural mission will allow the community to stay in the primitive stage , so the church has been increasingly pushed to the edge of modern society, the state of Christ Only to start his own hands to create wealth and contribute to society , impact on society .

But the wealth of the supremacy of universal moneyAwarenessIs inappropriate . Some of the value of life is not measured only by wealth alone can not earn money and live we do not belittle the role of wealth , but not the value of wealth opposeth and exalteth .

Wealth of valuable, can function , but limited role is the fact that wealth can buy a mansion , but can not buy family . Wealth can buy excellent ivory bed, but can not get excellent sleep . Wealth can buy food, but not health . Wealth can buy real goods, but can not buy true . Wealth can buy entertainment , but can not buy happiness . Wall Street was interviewed 100 wealthy boss , more than 90 people say they are not unhappy . Eternal happiness is not wealth, love and so be able to exchange for .

3 , wealth is God's gift

Mass 5:19 that God gives people money and wealth , but God's grace that the Bible says , The blessing of God, rich people , but not with anxiety . Wealth is not the root of all evil , love of money is the root of all evil The problem is not financial word word in greed . Wealth is not a crime , otherwise there would be no dedication of property owned by the Bible to God , Save money in the days of teaching .

4 , I'll make , in a proper way

Love can not lose money gentleman strength of character , the key is making money fair and square . The Bible says , his own hands for serious cause (Eph 4:28 ) is not love of money is not speculative and risky investment can not be blind , can not be rejected desperately to make money fast make money (Proverbs 28:20,22 ) flourishes of wealthAwareness, be careful , covetousness (Luke 12:51 ) not to steal is not fraud, not for ill-gotten wealth (Proverbs 16:8 ), rather give up wealth, not give up credit ; rather give up their lives , not without witness . Not for non- workers obtained the money , for example by taking bribes kickbacks . The Bible says , not workers obtained the money, inevitably consumed ; diligent savings , will see additional growth (Proverbs 13:11 ) settle down and earn the bread they eat ( Thessalonians 3:12) , keen and eaten hard gvc And happy to earn money openly so Christians need to clear out of the Bible training , legal reasonably earn .

5 , do not envy the rich , not hatred of the rich
Rich or poor people 's sovereignty in the hands of God , God will put a lot of wealth there is the faithful and wise (with financial management capability and wisdom ) in the hands of the righteous . Although there have been a sinner , when financial control , but the sinner will end the financial resources for the accumulation of the righteous (Proverbs 13:22 ) , the Bible clearly remember God has completed several major reversal of wealth : the wealth of Egypt 's treasury for the prime minister Joseph accumulation of food management , Israel Moses led the people out of Egypt when Egypt took a lot of property , unity of the Kingdom of prosperous countries in the wealth when the quartet tribute to Solomon , the end of wealth management for the righteous , it is the owner of the wealth of God are meant the plan .

In many cases such a situation would arise , not many people had received the five , received two more , leading up to 1000 do not envy the rich , God, the division of the ability of us , as faithful people in the little things To be eligible for management affairs , God will not give us too much wealth , so can not make the right use . Not to hatred of the rich , many to whom , to whom many on the take ; much care who , on whom more to (Luke 12:48 ) asked of us is faithful management of the wealth received from God , give full play to its value Good .

Also to be mentioned here is that there should be given to him, not even what he has will be taken of Matthew , need to add another one by training , so as not bigger wealth gap condition Gini coefficient , told you more than can be given to those missing people. People really need the power to promote his faith more than the time to practice to give to him who , when some people get rich earlier to get rich after practice to help most people , so as to achieve common prosperity , to achieve harmony .

6, we are trustees of wealth , God is the owner of wealth

Our sovereignty is not the highest , the ultimate ownership is not in us , not to say that wealth is mine, we came naked , but also passed away empty-handed , therefore, precisely, God entrusted to our wealth management, or that we from him Borrow in the future to account for him that we are stewards of God's property . God can be loyal and trust our intelligence to financial management . Our guiding principle is the only financial management : how would Jesus do ? (What would Jesus do?) with this problem seriously ask ourselves , then answer to the question strictly in accordance with the implementation .

7 , wealth is a good servant and bad masters

Martin Luther said that man can have property , but must understand that good management, so property owners to use the wealth , but wealth can not be used , how should it be used? Bo Jinsi has pointed out that the distribution of wealth should be on the following seven areas to reach its full potential : the glory of God saved the soul of the industry, we maintain our good family support to help the poor relatives of the benefits of the Church in support of national wealth, the purpose to achieve the seven Can not be lovers of themselves, can not satisfy their indulgence with the pleasures of wealth show of conceit so desires . To take into account my family ( relatives of the needs of family members ) family of God ( the church body needs) countries ( social needs of the people ) heaven ( Evangelical needs)

8, can not be obscene wealth , and rank can not be moved

Job is one such person in the rich but when , not forgetting the fear of God , and eschewed evil , full of integrity Embarrassment in abjection , when , still not abandoned God, continue to maintain its purity . Joseph is such a person , won the masters at the time of trust and high regard , not despise her mistress , not to offend God ; to be stigmatized as prisoner , still has not changed his beliefs , without complaints to believe in God ; when Above a million people under one prime minister , when countless wealth nor high on the hog , not indulge sensual , no extravagant contrast to the broad compassion to save people out of Egypt and neighboring countries from the famine crisis .

Life of an ever changing , when the office east of the river , when the Department Hexi , rich and poor can not rely on it in no uncertain given the wealth of those who Gan Lock Road will be facing poor air migang sing doxology , not hatred of the rich psychological , not complain about rage , Still full of confidence to rely on Houci soaring people of God, convinced that Heaven must be a way to work hard and are eventually harvested , feeding Elijah Crow is still flying in the sky today , a sparrow God Shangju take notice , not to mention more than sparrows Expensive and more people? God will certainly take notice . And if not, nothing on , and the Job at the time of praise singing: The LORD gave , received the Lord , Blessed be the name of the Lord of wealthAwarenessCertainly reflects a person's spiritual circumstances , can reflect the inherent quality of a person when in the humble , not a handout , This is Masculinity is also directed away from several coins sold his conscience , betraying the truth and the seller to their friends, Lose their position , lost when some of the principles , lost their moral conduct would like to get 30 dollars went to the seller of the Jews to have several sets of clothes on the meaning of Gehazi lied to the owner , is warning of Negative example.

Something to say , hungry crime, fed and warm, think lust . Although food is known Depository courtesy , but when people do not know Depository food when there will be courtesy of the possible, the time when people would have quite cold and hunger and evil may follow . Prayers Wisdom Road , but you make false and lies far from me, so I'm not poor , not rich , given my need to diet . I am afraid I do not believe you are filling , said the Lord who? Also I am afraid I poverty to steal, so profane the name of my God ( Proverbs 30:8-9 ) do have a certain amount of wealth accumulation , no less , so we do not corrupt the proportion of deposits can not steal For the Prime Minister about the light Joseph ratio of 20% stocks .

9 , do make every product to make facilities

This is the wealth of John Wesley madeAwarenessAnd complete to say is, do what you can make money , do your best to save , do what you can contribute .

God rewards the diligent , God does not help the lazy people who can not rest on its laurels , because the wine glutton will come to poverty . Good sleep , will be poorly clothed (Proverbs 23:21 ) In order to avoid your poverty , you will be like a bandit to your lack of like an armed man (Proverbs 24:34 ) , to improve their comprehensive Quality, active equipment, study hard , mining potential, practical work, to earn wealth , improving the economic situation and quality of life this wealth is labor in the very understandable , not pie falling from the sky dream of come .

Some people say that money is earned , not out of the province . But it was said, Qinjianchijia , Qin Jian Fang is the household with the road . Kim and Germany to support the teaching of today has the same build -saving society to achieve sustainable development can not be abused to lose, and to promote simple simple life it is necessary a lot of time, because the comparisons of vanity , greed, lust and other interference , can not Distinguish their own needs (NEED) , and you want to (WANT), wrong to luxury as a necessity to pursue this end, consumer debt purse overdraft facility to meet the desires I buy , therefore I am the consumer age , the value of purchasing power as their own Measure, the reason that basic necessities will be seeking to buy brand-name high end of the day , anti is by material should focus on cultivating the Holy Spirit in the lives of nine knot -like fruit is the same as the last romantic restraint not to waste , do not enjoy the pleasure .

We will save because of the accumulated wealth to make facilities more blessed to give than to receive (Acts 20:35 ) God bless the life of the law is the life and property of those who give up tightly with , you will lose ; dedicated to God, you Will have the Bible says , There is that scattereth, and yet adds (Proverbs 11:24 ) This is the world's most ancient and seemingly contradictory maxim , but it does go well in addition to tithing God but also Should donate to help the needy people we used to calculate the cost of sacrifice , not to calculate the cost of compassion not sacrifice the poor , is to lend his good deeds the Lord , the Lord will repay Zhou Ji of poverty , not lack of paradox is missing , Will be more than a curse To do this, you can not gripping start to let go , be rich in good , generous and willing to supply people, for themselves a good foundation , prepare the future, so we take hold of that real life the United States Puritan philanthropist Carnegie , who are left behind and not in the lifetime wealth of dedicated people out there who will , will be spurned by the people , said the oil giant Rockefeller , dead rich, is a scandal , if not the best make every product and facilities , Gelang on the desktop will become a miser , and his laugh

10 upheld tithing
About the contributions of new systems to tithing as a starting point in other words , it should be about more than even a new training standards by no less than the Old Testament Jesus did not abolish the law, but how Shing Chuen Shing Chuen law 's ? Who keep the whole law and not by righteousness , but by the law of Christ that meets all requirements of justice and righteousness simply, we can not keep the whole law, and by relying on the grace of justification does not mean that Ryan Righteous, we can destroy the law , and such as the Old Testament are meant to tithing , Jesus never destroy .

Jesus has reproached the hypocrites say , you will mint fennel celery , offer one-tenth of that law on the more important thing is that justice and mercy faithful , but you neglect the more important is that you walk in ; it is not Does not work ( too 23:23 ) where Jesus confessed, can not offer one tenth does not work, just a matter of justice and mercy faithful even more important matter of even a minor one , nor the scribes and Pharisees, not yet Can do even one , we not when even more ? Bible demands our righteousness to be better than the scribes and Pharisees, the meaning of Christ dedicated his life to us, he loved me and gave himself for me , such love inspire us , will give myself a living sacrifice , Whole person ( including the physical and spiritual wealth of talent and time ) devoted to the main front , which is natural if one-tenth of the money worldly possessions are unwilling to offer , presented the body lies, I hope that we have followed is to talk about the power of each Or through the power to sacrifice , before that , according to God 's will to put its own to the Lord I only hope that God 's grace given the Macedonian churches have given to us , showing the grace of donate , so we are content to Repeatedly begged to ( Corinthians 8:1-5 ) to God and his gospel fee financial trouble ( Corinthians 12:15 )

Understand the purpose of families

2010-09-19T02:11:00.001-07:00

A few weekends ago, my husband and I to host family and marriage Tienmu Camp , on the way home I was tired enough to sleep , but the heart is to meet with joy , knowing that many couples in this day studying the Bible on marriage The right to teach , and re- ignite hope of marriage . While in the car my husband and I did not talk , but it can feel deep in our hearts to God thanksgiving ; Although no silent prayer , praise and worship , but all with one great , wonderful God ; even in sleep , my heart still Immersed in the love and joy , the do know what we do will be retained in eternity .

Care to complete the mission in life

Married two years, we enjoyed the most is not only enjoy each other , love each other , even both of them to complete the Great Commission issued by the Lord to join the ranks can together peers . I am in high school , he accepted the U.S. work with Campus Crusade for Christ 's teachings about marriage : the three most important in life there are M, the first is the master, who is Lord of my life . The second is the mission, what is my mission in life . Third mate, who is my life partner . I decided my main mission , the mission of my Lord and my partner decided . I should find a mission in life and have the same mission with me , and serve , to follow the Lord .

If I just focus on finding a partner , while ignoring the life and mission of the Lord into the marriage, personal well-being after the single goal of gender how long the appeal without fading Bian Jiang , self-centered Physiognomy revealed in The details of life , friction and conflict is the inevitable outcome.

Jesus said to His disciples before His ascension : " All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me . So go and make disciples of all people to do what I , on instructions from the Father , Son and Holy Spirit in the name of them to be baptized . everything I have commanded You are teaching them to obey , I will always be with you until the end of the world . " (Matthew 20 chapters comprising 18 to 20 ) Jesus clearly the most important for us to set a life goal ; not only Live their lives , but to make all people understand the love of God and become disciples of Christ. Some people may misunderstand that this way of life is very hard , sacrificed much , but this is actually the most joy and satisfaction , and to bring us the greatest happiness.

Proverbs 20 IX 18 , said: " Without a vision, people perish . "This statement also explains that if man can not see or do not know what God wanted him to do , he do not know where to go . English Bible, the " wanton , " translated as perish, that is " destroyed " was intended. Similarly, if a family of God to understand the purpose of its existence , it will move toward indulgence , or destructive path. This is worth a serious look at issues. Today God to man and a woman into marriage, having children , not only for them to have a happy life and to be blessed by the family to the people around .

　Concerted efforts to spread God's Love

Two sons still young, we teach them God on our family 's mission , from kindergarten until the country , every year for their students to Juban gospel get-together , they know to school , not only to reading, is In order to share God's love and classmates . Sometimes they came home from school to see the strange visitors , and guests will be asked after the kick down greeted me: "You preach the gospel to her yet? "They know that every person entering our house must have the opportunity to hear the gospel , because This is our family 's mission .

Son of primary school , there are times I read a book , the book of heaven beauty of the heart to long for , they said: "I really want to return to heaven now ! "I never thought his son was , said: " Mummy, You also can not go , because there are many taxi drivers do not believe in Jesus Uncle ah ! "So he always saw me in the taxi drivers talk to the Gospel , so that it is my most important responsibility. Now he has been to university , and school less than two weeks , six students and seniors have the gospel and lead the four of them made decisions to accept the Lord . In the move to school before he prayed: " Thank the Lord gave me this school , I want to be you use. "

U.S. President Richard Nixon after Watergate meditation for many years , wrote in his memoirs : " You have to order an ideal greater than themselves live , or you'll miss life 's most exciting and valuable experience; only in the realization of this ideal The process of losing their own , you may actually find it . "

When parents and their children in the family work together to complete the great mission entrusted to the Lord , to spread God's Love , this is the most meaningful and valuable human things . A few days ago , the son of the junior students to visit us ; I have counseled him to school for two years . He is currently an apprentice in the engineering company , have a steady income and his mother wanted him to come to me specifically thank . That night , we pray for a young family with the heart is overflowing joy , knowing that our participation in God 's great plan to save the world , we have done , will be retained in eternity .

Works wonders

2010-09-07T20:18:00.000-07:00

"Dirty words , one can not be exported , as long as the things that bring people with good words , good to those who heard the call . "( Ephesians4Chapter29节）

Proverbs Chapter 3-5 Chapter 2 Corinthians 1

2008年11U.S. Supreme Court on whether to start a debate on use of constitutional restrictions on bad language . Federal Communications Commission to a certain national broadcaster , for example, the two performers allow the company to use the program frequently used bad language 2 . ABC argued that bad language fleeting , and is not sexually explicit words , should not be punished . Some people were against it, that we have a responsibility to protect children do not listen to that kind of language .

There is no doubt the church in Ephesus , there will be no dispute can not be swearing . Paul taught his followers to respond to grace and salvation by Christ was born to prove one way , is careful to speak (4Chapter29节）

Paul did not want them to live according to past ways , do not want to damage they say , unhealthy , obscene words , or malicious , defamatory rumors , and anything that would hurt others , divisive remarks. He hoped that the believers at Ephesus , when in need , that help people , has for good words , good to those who called the hearing .

As a follower of Jesus Christ, the hope from our hearts and mouth emission source of life. Also hope that all who hear the words we have been blessed .MW

Pray my mouth ,
Day control of my tongue ;
Help me test my ideas
Daily I said cautiously .Hess

The power of love

2010-09-06T02:06:00.001-07:00

Dear friends , I do not know whether you heard of this saying : if you are a millionaire , if you do not have friends , you are still the world's poorest people. How to become your friend good friends? Mr. Carnegie , " How to win friends and influence friends " in this book that the nine tips for making friends .

First, not judge , curse and complain about your friends .

Second, real , sincere encouragement, appreciate your friends.

Third, we should always induce his automatic , spontaneous .

Fourth, the sincere interest and interest to a friend .

Fifth, we should always smiled at him .

Sixth , we must remember that on my friends, is the best in the world to hear his name .

Seventh, to do a faithful listener .

Eighth, we must have been interested .

Ninth , to make friends feel that he is very important.

Dear friends , you 've heard it said it? "Some people went around looking for friends, asking many can not find a friend ; some friends around to do his good friends everywhere . " Let us learn to be friends of friends .

In today's " embrace of small language ", the process of maple and you want to share my dear friends, is a place in the Second World War a true story.

World War II , when the border in Spain there is a rugged mountain area . In the village there, gathered a lot of men and women , they are all controlled from the German Nazi secret police, the army men to escape , to flee to freedom of the French refugees . In this group of refugees , a young mother with a year-old girl , they intend to first Spain, then from there by boat to the United States . Otherwise, the Gestapo if they are caught , they will put into concentration camps , maybe it will kill them .

Traveled hundreds of miles, to here , although freedom is at hand , but it seems necessary to begin with , because the Spanish army is very stubborn , not to refugees who fled in the past . Then rumors , I heard that the secret police soon came to be living in the nearby strangers with appropriate identification , without identification should be locked up . The young mothers holding little girl , silently praying that God will rescue them . You may think how can it be clever , because the next day , a single man with a secret mission to the mother's room and said to her : "I am as a guide for underground work , I will lead the month when a group of black refugees Across the mountains to Spain. This is a long and arduous journey , but God help us. you can go to the mountains to find us. "

That night , Deep Night , people fall into deep sleep , the mother and daughter went to the place agreed upon the hillside . However, small children , take a little road tired, to the mother carrying her. At the appointed place , the mother has been exhausted . , Where a crowd of people , elderly , middle-aged , youth , men and women , we all waiting for someone to take them through the mountains, toward freedom . Lead the way for people to tell them that this is only a try in the road to ruin in the risk , we must trust in God .

At this time , we see that to a mother and daughter , they welcome them to join , but immediately turns back the little girl was . In this way, they crawl all the way up the mountain , the more they climb higher , we all feel a bit much. Come later , the oldest , the weakest physically , they can not help but groan issued . He said: " I walk up . " stagger stagger stagger away with a few steps and fell down . He told us that : "leave me , keep me here , well let me die here , and you save his life must bear . " listening to the leader 's left over, firmly and enthusiastically said: " However , You do not die , we must help each other. No matter how much power you have left , all belong to the people . come up with a final power to help you with this little girl, until you die. "

Three successive encounter such things , there are three elderly people to give up , but every leader should have persisted in their efforts to lead out the last little girl .

Wait until the morning light beginning to bear , they have crossed the peak , over the border to another state. This large group of people , everyone alive and very spiritual . The three elderly people to lead this little girl because actually created a new power , new life , also saw the new world of freedom .

How to grow and develop along with adolescent children ( 2 )

2010-09-01T01:33:00.001-07:00

Children from childhood into adolescence , when there will be many changes, mothers and daughters talk to some of some of the physiological and psychological changes , or make the opposite sex thing. Father, the child must have very clear principles of discipline , their kids will learn to know how to do an exercise self-discipline , know how to respect themselves and know how responsible the child . Not just pay attention to their parents, their children 's performance at home , in fact, hope that their lives and beliefs are consistent.

Life of faith with the most important is the performance of the parents at home , every Christian in every church may go to the party several times a week . Inside the church , you can pretend to look like a very devout Christian , but you go back home, in the eyes of a child is 24 hours in the verification of your behavior , so your words and deeds in which your child must With themselves , from the application of the faith with the hope of life is an example from the parents started their own , then they will follow you have such a yard outside the unity of life , the child in real life, in faith Implementation .

We Chinese parents love the Biaoda above, we have to Xuexichangchang hug a child ,会share with the kids the story of some young , or their own wrong thing because they will feel that the original father and mother would Wrong , they will take the initiative to share where they need help . By observing the children to see what their interest is , and then arrange a common time with him. For example , a comparison of the eldest daughter like to watch movies, special arrangements for parents only go to the movies with boss , to take this opportunity to share with her a lot , because only two people , we can talk more. She also felt her mother was also recognized my needs , she knows her mother is able to understand her and her younger brother have different needs , we are doing.

Daughter when he was in contact with skin , for example, hug her, hug her close to her . Sometimes love is not with words alone, the need for these operations , the need for such behavior. Her daughter , the parents would speak to her in the future more heart , not the same with the boys . Afraid that her daughter was cheated , being bullied , being hurt so many concerns.

In adolescence , her friend , her companion , is a major factor affecting her , so we pray to her side and have some friends with her spiritual growth . Often encourage her to have read through the life , prayer life. So she knew God's mind , we parents are not beside her , she taught in God's guidance as one of her parents is often pray for her .
Now the United States, college students, men and women having sex before marriage is common , many parents will think , would be worried if something has happened how do? So with our Christian faith taught her , know how to live a life pleasing to God , if the children understand the fear of God, and know they have to live a life pleasing to God , she can draw strength from God is better than a lot of Thing.

In American life , children are very free, in a small time, he should let them create a concept from their parents but can not leave God . You are in the charge of God , you are children of God. A child we should pray in the reading area , and they have a good communication , knowing from their parents not to leave everything and not leave the rules , not to leave your holy way of life , this is a very important concept . If they have a fear of God's heart , whether they are in the ends of the earth , they know how to live a life pleasing to God , we parents can rest assured complete .

How to grow and develop along with adolescent children ( 1 )

2010-09-01T01:32:00.001-07:00

Children from childhood into adolescence , when aspects of the physical aspects or Xinli have different changes Erju this time as a child Ye Kaishixiangyao adult , he tries hard to change, like his mother Huozhe Taren Shi Like adults . When the child self-reliance , independence, increasing self- awareness , when it 's way to teach parents may need to be adjusted . This time the biggest adjustment is learning to shift from a mother's role as a close friend of the child , let him think you were next to him a good friend. Parents should learn their language , or clothing, or interest in respect for the opposite sex is to learn . Parents with their own experiences to share their stories with them , then they can also share their part with you , so that a better understanding of their psychological and changes in the opposite sex and their thoughts and feelings .

Children grow up in , in their daily lives, although we are friends, but sometimes also in need of discipline , when , usually by the father to discipline . In this respect, sometimes after a certain punishment , and the kids said their parents had so little time to grow up too , also have been punished this way too . Parents are human beings , but also a painful stage after this , they will agree , they were punished in their growth process is in a part of . That is, they would throw socks off after the will , or even not to change and wash clothes on a fixed place on the plug under the bed under the quilt , then give them a proper punishment. This punishment is not to say a few large plates, or is that a few days off their computer , or television , or a specific cleaning them , or you need to wash a few weeks . When you ask them this time , or put some of their TV programs or the Internet , etc. , they are usually obedient , because from the beginning when they were young . You when a father from his little when you say not so, to a time when young people would not you say so , this requires an early age , when there is a basis .

For example: Dad said no , even if the sky is falling does not work, because God is the God of justice, he wants to teach , every father is the image of God and justice . We must firmly remember that , do not overlook that when the father of this role.
After each penalty , or to teach , especially to arrange a time to chat with them , or Bao Yibao them, so their relationship will not be destroyed because of this punishment . This is a child understand that discipline , but they also know their parents love them, hate them or think they are not very good, but a positive image of the discipline , they understand that we love him. For the children, both boys and girls have always embraced , and later in the discipline has been able to hug them and let the children feel their parents love deeply . Let the child know that parenting is reasonable , I should accept parental discipline . Between the child with parents to establish a parents both respects the feelings of love .

In the discipline , if we parents do not have a discipline , then the child itself is unsafe because he does not know in the end result is that he did right or wrong.

How Do I Control My Man's Mind!

2010-08-31T02:01:00.001-07:00

No one will ever know what's going on inside other people's mind. If you are a girl wanting to control your man's mind, here are some simple tips for you:

Be transparent.
If you are honest to your man and you do not keep anything from him, then he will also not have any reason to be dishonest with you. All girls would want their man to be true to them, so in order to achieve this, you must initiate the act.

Stop nagging and complaining and you'll have him wrapped around your fingers.
A man often hesitates to share what's in his mind because he could be getting negative remarks rather than praises from you. Instead of giving him a scene of confrontation each time, make sure that he's showered with admiration.

Be more understanding.
Remember that you love the entire package not just a few aspects of him. So if he fails at some point in your relationship, be ready to accept him and be supportive still. Knowing that you will always be there makes him more at ease and soon he'll be more than ready to open up to you.

Make him feel secure.
Let him feel that no matter what happens that the love you have for him will never fade. Since he's ascertained of your feelings for him, then it will be easier for you to bend him to your way of thinking each time.

Learn to read between the lines.
Be sensitive to his feelings and even the non-verbal actions that he's trying to show to you. Be the type of woman who can read him or his actions and you're the woman who's able to control him.

Know him better.
You will be able to know what right things to do in every situation if you know your man. Having enough knowledge of what makes him tick, you will be better able to give him his wants and needs. And if he's well taken care of, it would be much easier to direct him to your will.

Make him love you.
If he is into you, then you will always be the one in his mind. If he loves you dearly all he will think of is you and how to please you. So make the extra effort to make him love you - be gorgeous, be kind, be you.

It will all be up to you on how to deal with your man's mind so that you either serve your motives or him. You can resort to other suggestions like hypnotism. But to make things simpler, love and honesty are all that you'll ever need to take control of your man's mind.

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Growth time

2010-08-24T02:42:00.001-07:00

Browse in the gift shop birthday card , one of a I can not help laughing , which was written : "You are only young once , but may never grow up ! " never have to grow up comfortable seems very happy , no one fanatical love Peter Pan Peter Pan 's people would agree .

However , naive and ignorant we all know life is not only inappropriate , it is not socially acceptable. For Christians, maturity is an essential element in our rebirth and become disciples of Christ , the more the baby to go beyond the stage of spiritual , scripture encourage us to learn more like Christ .

Corinth was a church there are many problems , in a letter addressed to Corinthians , Paul wrote the Corinthians Church is rooted in a lack of spiritual growth issues . Corinthians3Chapter1Day said: "Brethren, I used to talk to you , not to you as spiritual but to treat you in the flesh, as infants in Christ . "

How should we grow , we will not just remain in the spiritual child of? Peter encourages us: "You have to in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ grow in grace and knowledge "( 2 Peter3Chapter18Section). By meditating on the word of God and prayer , we can do ( Psalm119Posts97-104Section ; Acts of the Apostles1Chapter14Section ), as chaos in the Corinthian Church, perhaps now is the time we are in the growth !WEC

More like my benefactor , spiritual increasingly long;
More filled with love , in front of praise ;
More willing to deny himself, as subject and object Park prayer ;
More like my benefactor , forever and ever .Gabriel

Spiritual transformation

2010-08-19T20:32:00.000-07:00

"Do not love the world , and things in the world . If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him . " ( I John 2 15)

In the " Bible " , God revealed to his many multi-party loved the world how to save the world You gave his only begotten son Jesus Christ , perfecting the salvation ; God, all believers must know that he is in Christ Jesus , applied to the love we have is how wide and long advanced . At the same time , God manifested his intention more clearly , to all the grace , the beloved children all know to love him , specifically , the fiery love him.

However , many of the children of God to the Father 's love is often lukewarm , old cold , or a mouthful say love the Lord , but their hearts are far away from the Lord to do a great debt to benefactor . So we lost love of the Father of the heart, because love in the world and things in the world . What is " the world and things in the world "mean ? Scripture says : "All things in the world , just as lust of the flesh , the eyes of lust , and pride of life ... ... "( I John 2 16) " For " the original but "need" mean , like people hungry Need to eat the same . But if people had enough , they steal other people's food, that is from the bottom of the greedy desire .

Similarly, Christians today live in the ground, although the need to work and earn money to support themselves, but wherever the situation , should always keep the mind of Christ to meet , or we can easily deviate from the main heart , to pursue to meet their own Eyes , physical desire , and the so-called achievements of the earth , this life boast .

Brothers and sisters , though we do not belong to the world in the world , we are super- WTO and the world is Lord we call out from the world . Do not be far away from home prodigal father should be heart to the Lord , specificity , hot to love God our Father , he will favor us in the end .

sticking with the well-being

2010-08-18T21:09:00.000-07:00

From China to the United States , settled in the United States, Yuan YANG Ai-dong and foreign couples , they have two children and a woman . Today, they want to share with us how they believed the Lord , their marriage by faith what the Lord has been updated and changed .
The Bible says : " God has joined together man can not be separated . " Many people choose the object of marriage there are many different views. Some people think that "God has joined together "means their spouses back in some kind of arrangements , while others believe that God enables us to choose their own love object . In this regard, YANG Ai-dong that marriage is established by God , this concept means that the first marriage who is God , the couple combined , is a sacred relationship. God gave us free will , let us look at life among the people who love each other . In the search process is to pray, God leads to see whether God has prepared for us by our mind 's . We should seek God 's heart. In this process, we find consistency with our character 's spouse, if married , the two's relationship is very sacred and holy . Did not occur in extreme cases , it is not at liberty to break up a marriage . Yuan Yang also think that this section of the Bible are asking our marriage is respect. God give us wisdom . Bible also tells us: "Faith and do not believe can not be yoked together with " God guide us , when we look for when looking for a spouse with faith , so that we can better serve the Lord to pursue owners . God means that , when we become husband and wife , we must respect our marriage - we have established the relationship between God , not only in good times to respect , in the face of adversity should be respected, even when there is greater disagreement between the differences When the relationship established by God, not because of personal reasons we break it out .
Everyone has the autonomy to choose their own will, the object of love , but once decided, the two people into marriage , can not be free to the end of the marriage . Two people to operate together in prayer should be to create marriage, to make it more beautiful .
In YANG Ai-dong in a marriage, two people have no house, they lived in temporary housing allocation in the company , the kitchen is shared . They always went together when cooking , a cook , a keep them , the couple love each other , have been neighbors at home. YANG Ai-dong is a law student , Yuan Yang is a normal school graduate , two people are intellectual . They married three years left Beijing and went to Vancouver . In those three years , the marriage of two people has been very smooth , respectful love for one another . Later, after two people discussed and unanimously decided to study abroad , an increase of knowledge , so they emigrate to other countries together .
The initial migration is a very hard life , had two people 's wages are good, but go abroad to start from scratch . Abroad, they are the first with a dishwasher when not , because people find it too they do not have experience . Renovation work was to start from the YANG Ai-dong , to dishwashers, cooks, to the plastic products company , combined with the relationship between people is not friendly, so that part of life is very hard . Later in the church , they finally found the kind of friendship between people .
Older employees in the company of new employees will be bullied , plus the work of the past, they are more superior , and now all of a sudden dropped to the bottom of society , so Yang Lidong mind then great sense of loss , depression . Front of the window when he often sighed , Antan why they should give up the outstanding work abroad came to suffer , I do not know when this kind of life can proudly . This sentiment , I believe many friends leave the country once had . Therefore, foreign friends , the church should find as soon as possible , so that could solve many problems.

Strong dragon does not push local snakes

2010-08-18T03:27:00.000-07:00

The last time we talked about "strong dragon does not push local snakes " , spoke of Isaac the "strong Dragon " facing " the local snakes " - Abimelech came with his army before him . That pressure does not push it he ? Of course, pressure , and if he does not pressure , they might soon his family problems , man the image of this time we would come out a long , tries to dominate the scene . Is the soldiers to the block , water flooded soil !

How we Christians do? People come to us trouble , we use what soldiers, what will be , what land , what mud then ? People come to Java , how should we be? Eye for an eye , an eye for an eye it? The Bible Jesus said , Matthew Chapter 5, 44 『 But I tell you : Love your enemies . Matthew Chapter 5 , section 39,40 』『 someone strikes you on the right cheek, too , turn to him to fight ; to bring it inside your clothing, even the coat from him either . 』
Although people hit me in the right cheek , left cheek I have called him , but how to play there luxurious . He did not say someone hit you on the right cheek you are not to talk directly to your left cheek to him play , so after the speech you do not . Paul beaten , he said: "Why did you hit me ? "he say something! When people catch the Lord Jesus , he is not let people capture , he said, " I am with you in the synagogue every day, teaching, and you do not arrest me, why have they arrested the robber as today ? " the examples from the Bible to see that you can love Your enemy , you can force your people to go one mile, you walk two miles . But you should say or should say. Like Isaac, he made it very clear last time we said, as the triad of the gang when they came , Isaac was not shy in hiding, he was the truth, the truth and the others to be clear . Because they knew it. We often say , I want to say how he would say this . I did say that he会怎么想. Christians are not doing things like this , what is said is. And he said, not because I am better than you , but because you envy me , envy, to hate me , then sent me away , this is the facts of the past for some time . Isaac was a little afraid , no matter what you do , these words I Chao . You need to pay hearts, to understand things from the perspective of God 's will and not because you eat the loss , not because someone mistreats your anger on a stomach . If you have those things get in your eyes , you go to the point you could not speak , you say and no power , because the Spirit of the Lord is not with you.
After Isaac 's reply also added a question asking each other , "Why come to me ? "so people have to answer him on this issue . You tell me first , you come to do , then I will decide how to do . In that , I would tell you to clear , is not afraid , I do not hide , not fierce . At that time Abimelech said 『 We saw clearly that the Lord is with you ! 』 people not to trouble is to summation . The Old Testament that people want you to go one mile , you accompanied someone to go two miles . Isaac most clear in this case , this clearly is Isaac when his father Abraham dug wells alive , Isaac dug again the result that the shepherds of Gerar , Abimelech their servants Philistines On to compete , said "This is our well , or you dig a well with stone plug up , you just gave back . " Is not that the Lord Jesus say right cheek , left cheek , coat , jacket , one mile , two miles Things?
Many from China to overseas compatriots , never read the Bible , have not heard these words of Jesus say . So when you are at the party inside , you put this in the Lord Jesus, clothing, coat , one in two years of lessons and tell you when we heard laughter , feel ridiculous . If you play the fool asked them why they laugh ? They would say the world can there be such a thing ? This is what is the use? You called him the other side of your face, what? People ask you that what result? What you do then? Then we read Genesis , chapter 26 on the line, the second reason why you go , you play as Isaac reason with him , like , in fact, is to allow God to intervene so that God in his time , his approach To manifest with him and your in ! You let people bully does not matter, you repeatedly put up with , mine to avenge the Lord .
Just as an illustration , the Chinese people speak with ' repeatedly put up ' is not the same . Is to allow " let " word on the left of a " statement " , is the Word of God . The Word of God so that God 's love in my heart , I'm just very confident that delves back . Back forward , back forward , Abimelech came, they said, 『 We saw clearly that the Lord is with you . 』 If not let Isaac in front of the enemy can not see them . If he let his enemies can not see . However, once the enemy is not so visible , to make a lot of times .
Do you know what the Church today ? Christians question? Head of the family 's problems? Do not see the Lord is with you ! Others can not see , can not see your children , your wife can not see your neighbors , your enemies can not see . You did not witness , you think you a very good relationship with the Lord , but others can not see other people see you light is a very devout religious believers , it does not work . You want , but also digging wells ! To dig wells to water ! To farming , there is the harvest ! Although tired , but the Lord said when My worry is light , my brief is easy. 』
Easy brief , light burden provinces still tired . How to do that tired ? Lord be with ! No matter how tired the day Isaac , Abimelech he heard these words , to ensure not tired. I had them in this difficult , the result you to say , we saw clearly that the Lord is with you , very exciting ! Companion radio favorite with workers received letters from listeners , the original is very hard , but one received a letter from the audience feel are worth ! David and Mungo also need your encouragement ... ...
Today's theme is worthy of us to think about , so let him Isaac , he was such a retreat , in the end what value? Normal life with our relationship? Should we just allow , it is so back , nothing can do it? You may have many wrong stereotypes good, to go to think about what the content of this program .

How can I change the " destiny "mean ?

2010-08-17T20:21:00.001-07:00

Fate to change , crime problems to solve , how to solve the crime problem?
What is a " sin "mean ? Great to murder arson, looting rape, little to greedy lying , pride, envy ... ... chapters 17 James Bible : "If anyone knows do good and does not do , and this is his sin . " To His crime of sexual , Jesus said: " All who see women on the move lust , that the psychology has committed adultery with him . " This is not to say who is wrong? Since all have sinned , then the crime problem to solution? God gives us a way to solve the crime of " blood on behalf of the redemption , "because the Bible said: " Without blood , no forgiveness of . "
Shame! This " blood atonement " of the sacrificial way , he was generally popular religion to worship gods . Who started 15 or so around the turn when the Festival , each household must kill a pig , chicken, duck , to worship , no matter how poor the family is also a sin to kill chickens or ducks to ward off evil . But also in the bleeding wound must worship Shihai Alignment of you god idols , if poultry neck aligned put the gods, asking them to look at outlaw these sacrifices are bleeding , if the frame up and head aligned in swine and sheep on the gods Mouth Basset were orange , meaning " I am willing to help them die. " ( Gan words take Taiwanese pronunciation of the word orange kain )
So please look at these gods out bloody dead animal 's sake , spare forgive us our sins , so we are the crime of retribution Erzao to doom or disaster .
Why do people use the Bible, generally under the method of blood atonement , but also not forgive peace? The object because the demand is wrong, folks are asking for the idol gods no right to forgive sins , he can only persuade people to do more good things to make amends for the crime , if the plot merit can only do good things on the Western Paradise , then, Why lodging people killed so many animals to back people sin it ?
In fact, the blood atonement of faith in the folk mass has thousands of years . The ancient ritual of the day , does not mean the sky or private worship of the gods , nor worship the people of Taiwan by the Song Emperor bestowed Huizong of Zhang Yi God . The ancients referred to the "Heaven" is a person , is the first large Almighty .
Therefore, Confucius said, " Huo Zuiyu days , nothing to pray too ! "
So the first big Almighty who? His destiny as a people is the fate , the manager 's fortune, dominate , and this is the true God created all things - God .
In fact, human beings must be through the blood atonement of Christ the only way to be close to God, to get the peace of forgiveness . Blood atonement is the way with animals , is the past and the Old Testament God, who by established methods , so called " Old Testament . " Since the man came to the world body and shed blood of Jesus Christ , God gives it a new salvation forgiveness separate ways , known as the " New Testament . " As long as sincerely believe that mouth that you confess Jesus as your personal Savior , to complete the pardon of the effectiveness , " Destiny " will be completely changed.
You can do prayer (Prayer is talking with God ):
"Dear God, Thank you Jesus Christ, only begotten son (Jesus - Savior of the meaning ) ( Christ - the meaning of monarchy ) has given me and for my died on the cross for my resurrection . Saviour Jesus, ah ! I need you, now I open the gate to receive your as my Savior and seek your pardon , I committed many mistakes in life , many crimes, and to play my old curse brought about by fate . now Gave me new life and seeking a new destiny , so I became children of God. Holy Name of Jesus . Amen ( Amen means sincerely wish ) "